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Men's Fitness Sex Poll

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Sex. You love thinking about it, talking about it, planning for it. And now we want to know all your dirty little secrets. So take a break from your hectic day and answer some questions for us. It's completely anonymous and should take about 10-15 minutes. Once you're done, you can enter for a chance to win a special gift pack from Trojan. Final results will be published in the December issue of Men's Fitness. All Fields Required

What is your definition of sex?

At least one person climaxes with "SOME" kind of stimulation (ex: manual, oral, vibrator)     Both climax with any kind of stimulation     Penetration (regardless of who or if anyone climaxes)     Giving or receiving oral sex     Mutual oral sex

How would you describe your sex life right now?

I'm very satisfied     I'm satisfied     I'm moderately satisfied     I'm not satisfied

How often do you have sex?

Four or more times a week     A couple of times a week     Four or more times a month     Once or twice a month     Less than once a month     I'm not having sex right now

How many people have you had sex with in your lifetime?

0-10     10-20     20-30     30-50     More than 50

Of all the people you have had sex with, how many stand out in your mind as great lovers?

Almost all     About half     Maybe one in four     Very few     None

On a scale from 1 to 5 (1 being the lowest, 5 being the highest), how high is your sex drive normally?

1     2     3     4     5

How high is your sex drive after a workout? (On a scale from 1 to 5, with 5 being the highest)

1     2     3     4     5

What Turns You On About Her?

What is most attractive on a woman?

Sexy lingerie     A feminine dress     Just a T-shirt and jeans     My clothes     Workout clothes, like a sports bra and running shorts     Nothing!

What's sexiest to you when you're eating dinner with a woman?

If she orders a "diet" meal (steamed, sauce to the side, just veggies, etc.)     If she orders a reasonably sized meal     If she eats the works—appetizer, entrée, dessert-and even takes me up on my suggestion to take a bite of my meal

Is it a turnoff if your partner doesn't eat healthy foods?

Yes, I want a woman who likes to eat the same healthy foods as me     Yes, it means she's not taking care of her health     Yes, I don't think it's attractive if a woman eats unhealthy foods     No, I eat unhealthy foods, so I don't care what she eats     No, it doesn't bother me

How would you feel if your partner were preoccupied with her weight?

Turned off     Concerned     Encouraged     Unaffected

Does a woman's fitness level affect whether you'd date her?

Yes, I want to date someone who is as active as I am     Yes, if someone isn't fit, it means she's not healthy     Yes, I find a lack of commitment to fitness a turnoff     No, I'm not very fit, so I don't care if the woman I date isn't     No, other attributes are more important to me

Does a woman's weight affect whether you'd date her?

Yes, I'm looking for someone with a body proportion similar to mine     Yes, if she's overweight, it isn't healthy     Yes, if she's underweight, it isn't healthy     Yes, if she's either over- or underweight, it isn't healthy     Yes, I find an over- or underweight woman unattractive     No, I'm not concerned with my weight, so I wouldn't be considered with hers     No, other attributes are more important to me

If your partner gains weight, does it affect how attracted you are to her?

Yes, if she gets to an unhealthy weight     Yes, I find it unattractive if a woman gains any weight     No, I've gained weight, so I don't care if she does     No, I don't care what she weighs

What would you change about your partner physically?

I'd like her to lose some weight     I'd like her to gain some weight     I'd like her to tone/firm certain areas     Nothing, she's perfect as-is

What do you wish your partner would do more often in the bedroom?

Wear sexy lingerie     Initiate sex     Play a more dominant role in lovemaking     Spend more time on foreplay     Try new positions or techniques     Nothing, I'm satisfied

Do you wish your spouse or significant other was more sexually adventurous?

Yes     No

Which celebrity do you think is the sexiest?

Jessica Alba     Beyonce     Jessica Biel     Kate Bosworth     Megan Fox     Scarlett Johansson     Eva Mendes     Sienna Miller     Rihanna     Jessica Simpson

Satisfaction Between the Sheets

How often do you have an orgasm when you have sex?

Every time     Nearly every time     About half the time     One in four times     Rarely     Never

How often does the person you are WITH have an orgasm?

Every time     Nearly every time     About half the time     One in four times     Rarely     Never

How important to you is it that your partner has an orgasm?

Very important     Somewhat important     If they don't mind having one, I don't mind     Not important to me

How would you rate your knowledge of what your partner likes sexually?

Excellent     Good     Okay     Not great

What statement is most true?

Penetration is the most important thing to make a woman orgasm     Most women need some clitoral stimulation before penetration     Women need clitoral stimulation before and during intercourse     Clitoral stimulation is the most important thing: penetration is secondary

Where have you gotten most of your information on how to please your partner?

I had one partner in particular who explained a lot     I've made it a point to ask each person I've been with what pleases them     I don't ask but try to guess, trial and error with each person     Other

Have you ever faked an orgasm?

Yes     No

If yes, how often?

Once or twice     Often     All the time     Never

If yes, what is the main reason you fake orgasm?

I am tired and want to get it over with     My partner isn't a good lover and I want to get it over with     I know I won't climax and I don't want to hurt my partner's feelings     I don't fake them

Has anyone faked an orgasm with you?

Yes     No     I don't know

Do you like to give oral sex?

Yes     No

What Are You Packin'?

My concern about my penis first came from:

Other men (like in the locker room)     Girlfriends     Family     Porn/Movies     I'm not concerned

Do you think penis size matters to her?

Yes     No

Would you like to have a bigger penis?

Yes     No

As a lover, I consider myself:

Good     Average     Fair     Bad     I've never considered it

Have you ever had an STD and not told your partner?

Yes     No     I've never had an STD

I have experienced erectile dysfunction

Never     A few times     Often     Almost always

I have experienced premature ejaculation

Never     A few times     Often     Almost always

Hookers, Porn, Cheating and Other Dirty Little Secrets

Have you ever been with a prostitute?

Yes (oral sex, hand job, intercourse)     No

Do you think prostitution should be legalized?

Yes     No

Do you enjoy watching porn?

Absolutely, but I only watch it alone     Yes, I watch it alone and with my partner     No, but I watch it with my partner because she likes it     No

In general, I masturbate:

At least once a day     Every other day     Once a week     Once every other week     Once a month, or less     Seldom     Never

Have you ever cheated?

No     I've cheated once     I used to, but never do now     I cheat regularly

What do you think is the tipping point for cheating?

Thinking about someone else     Communicating with or seeing someone regularly, but no sex     E-mailing sexual thoughts and desires (and even pictures)     Kissing and foreplay, but no sex     Having sex with someone else     All of the above

How forgiving would you be if your partner cheated?

I wouldn't; cheating is unforgivable     I have been forgiving, but don't tolerate cheating now     It depends on the situation (who with and when it happened)     I would be very forgiving—it's part of my nature

And now, a few basic questions for our survey statistician. She's a stickler for details.

Age

-- Select One --Under 1818-2021-3435-4445-5455 or older

Household Income

-- Select One --Under $25,000$25,001-$34,999$35,000-$49,999$50,000-$74,999$75,000-$99,999$100,000-$124,999$125,000-$149,999$150,000-$199,999$200,000 or more

Education (highest level completed)

-- Select One --Some high schoolHigh school graduateSome collegeCollege graduatePost-graduate studies

Status

-- Select One --MarriedSingle (never married)Other

Employment

-- Select One --Full-timePart-timeNot employed

Click submit to see how your results stack up to other MF'ers. And then don't forget to follow the link for your chance to win a gift pack from Trojan.

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