Let the conversation unfold naturally, and don’t try too hard to come up with something supersexy to say. Your partner loves you for who you are and expects your quirkiness to reflect in your messages—even the dirty ones. "You want to remind her that you're not just another text message, and that there's a man behind each message that she's connected to," Savoy says.
When things get hot and heavy via text, suggest switching to the phone.
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