She’s screaming. You’re screaming. It’s gone on so long that neither of you remembers how the hell it even started. “Stop fighting to the death just to be right,” says Sharon Rivkin, a marital and family therapist in Santa Rosa, California and author of Breaking the Argument Cycle. There’s a way better way to firmly make your points without going multiple rounds, and a few simple tactics can soften the blows, turning a messy fight around in a matter of minutes. Take this advice, and you may even get to fast-forward straight to make-up sex! (You’re welcome.)
Get over the fight and onto the makeup sex a lot faster when you follow this advice on how to argue the right way.