Confidence is often seen as one of the most sought-after attributes women want in a man. A less attractive guy with more confidence can often beat out the better-looking dude when it comes to jobs, women, and more. But we all get a little (or extremely) insecure now and again. Even the most confident guy takes a hit—whether or not they let you know it is another story. But can you tell when your anxiety gets the best of you, and you're wearing your insecurity like a full-blown billboard? You know, when everyone else is thinking "Oh, he's acting that way because he's insecure," but you think you've got the wool over everyone's eyes?
“There’s always two extremes," says Stephan Labossiere, a relationship expert and coach. "There’s the insecure guy who’s withdrawn and the guy who’s over-doing it." In small doses your insecurities might seem endearing to a woman, but if you let them get the best of you, they're a major turn off. See if you're guilty of these insecure behaviors that are turning her off.