Women love guys who bake,” says Pepper Schwartz, PhD, sociology professor at the University of Washington and coauthor of The Normal Bar. Give it a try. Invite her over to bake holiday sugar or gingerbread cookies together. And don't worry if they don't end up tasting great or if you burn them to a crisp, she'll still be turned on by your effort. To add a sexy twist dare each other to decorate them in a way that's naughty. Nice!