5 Reasons She Went with the Other Guy

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5 Reasons She Went with the Other Guy

He doesn't seem to have anything you don't. So, what the heck happened?

Men tend to be outcome-oriented. We have conversations to exchange information. When we go on dates, it’s to assess or pursue the possibility of a romantic and/or sexual relationship. In contrast, women tend to be process-oriented. They’ll talk for the pleasure of having a conversation. Some women enjoy the dating process even without looking for anything more than dates.

If this describes the women in question, then unless you totally blew her away, you probably never had much of a chance anyway. She just didn’t have anything better to do that night and thought that being taken out for dinner would be fun. (By the way, dinner and a movie is a terrible first date—here’s why.)

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