Today’s cougars aren’t passive, but they are popular, thanks to TV shows like Cougar Town. Female cougars always on the hunt for new prey. But not every cougar (a hot woman several years older than you) is Mrs. Robinson seeking a young sexual playmate. Most are on the prowl for a real relationship. If you're looking to date a cougar, be careful. Older women have limited patience for the shenanigans of youth, so stick to these five no-fail rules and you will be dating older women in no time.