Walk slowly. Let it take a second for your glass to go from the table to your lips. Make slow, controlled gestures, and never waste a movement. Body Language expert (and top dating coach) Derek Cajun advises men to “move like you’re moving underwater.” (Stick with us here.) This shows confidence and command of the situation. Women will see you as someone who people are used to waiting for, not someone who has to rush to keep up.
Pull your hands out of your pockets, stop using your drink as a defense mechanism—and watch how differently women respond.
1. Slow it down
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