“Defensive” body language—in short, any stance that would protect you if you got hit—is unattractive and shows a lack of confidence. Most men don’t realize when they’re doing this (a lot of body language issues are hard to self-diagnose. We’re just covering the simplest stuff here). A common example: Most men hold their drink up around chest level. Keep it on the table or by your side.
Pull your hands out of your pockets, stop using your drink as a defense mechanism—and watch how differently women respond.
4. Be a lover, not a fighter
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