She says: “The most awful kissers are the men who lick onto the face and leave chafed red circles around my mouth. Sadly, there's more than one guy out there doing that.” – Judy, 31
How to fix it: Speaking of puppy love, yikes! She doesn’t need a tongue bath on her face to know you’re happy to see her. Says Demirjian, “A little licking can be sensual. A full on lick that covers the entire surface of your cheek is not.” Until you sense her comfort level, stick to the standards like an occasional earlobe graze or a trail of kisses down her neck. And when you are licking outside the mouth, Demirjian advises that you use just the tip to mid-section of the tongue, gently and softly—and on a small surface area.