Fans of comic books aren’t known for successfully emulating the physiques of their heroes. Your personality might be enough to win over the object of your affection, but first you’ve got to get her to notice you. “If we’re expected to take care of ourselves, I think a man should take care of himself, whether you’re into comic books or not. Take an hour to work on yourself.Take care of yourself and it will show. Learn about it. It’s not just about going to the gym and working out. You have to learn how to be healthier. Read up on it and try to be the best you can be,” Cassidy says.