Hey, 2008 called—it wants its sex question back. Think of all the women—celebrities included—who’ve gotten burned lately by nude pics that got into the wrong hands; nobody wants that stuff floating around anymore.
Sure, it’s understandable that you’d like some hot visuals to keep you company on any long, lonely nights (or mornings…). But asking a girl for sexy pics—especially if you’re a new couple—is dicey. If you want to give it a shot, explain to her why you’d like them—be honest—and talk through your motives and intentions.
But this is critical: If she’s not keen on the idea, let it go. As with anything sexual, it’s not OK to pressure her or keep snidely bringing it up once she’s weighed in.
Instead, be sweet—and make your next move: Ask her to pose (no camera involved) for you in person, as foreplay. If she’s shy, tell her how sexy her body is—every part of it—till she’s comfortable and excited. At the end of the day, you may not have the photos, but you’ll certainly have the memories.