"My best friend’s girl came on to me when he wasn’t around—what should I do? To be honest, I’ve always been attracted to her. She’s hot, hot, hot. But then, he’s been my bud for years. I’m so conflicted..." — BEN R., BROOKLYN, NY
She sounds like a real catch.
If you really value your buddy’s friendship, don’t sleep with her. If it gets to the point where she’s being superaggressive, you can either confront her about it and tell her you don’t want to betray your friendship with him or just flat out avoid her.
For all you know, she could be just using you to get back at him for something. Don’t fall for it!