How to Get (and Keep) Her Attention

STEP 4: TAKE IT OUTSIDE

Now think logistics. Ditch loud, crowded surroundings for something more intimate. "That's where you'll discover your shared interests," Savoy says. "It's where you build a connection." You can't really get to know someone when you have loud bass pumping in your ears. Ask her if she wants to go somewhere for coffee so you can talk. Then find a nice, quaint cafe—she'll love seeing that side of you.