The 7 Golden Rules of Being a Wingman
Winging is your chance to interact with women in a no-lose setting.
Rule No. 6: Act like the game Is over
Act like your friend and the woman he’s talking to are a couple. Talk about them as a unit. You’ll be amazed by the effect. It’s a technique called “framing”: Women are more affected by subcommunications than by what’s actually being said.
Rule No. 7: Communicate
Women talk in private. Men don’t. Text instead. That way you can discretely call any necessary audible, like, “Are you sure you’re not beer-goggling?” or, “Don’t tell the nun-in-the- burning-building story—I already did.”
Nick Savoy is the president of Love Systems and the author of the best sellers Magic Bullets and It’s Your Move.