You should have seen this one coming. Sitting in a dark theater, silent for two hours is not exactly the best way to get to know someone, and it certainly won’t entice her to come back to your place later. Going to the movies also presents a similar problem to dinner, which is you’re not in a place to connect physically. “People do naturally touch, and want to touch, when they have a connection—not even solely a romantic connection,” says Savoy. It’s hard to make this kind of advance when you can't even see her.