1. She’s got swag in her step. “Confidence is so sexy, and women who exude higher self-esteem in other arenas are likely to carry that confidence into the bedroom,” says sexologist Jessica O’Reilly, Ph. D., author of the forthcoming Hot Sex Tips, Tricks & Licks. But you can almost guarantee she’ll be a rockstar in the bedroom if you help give her a boost. “Compliments can go a long way to put her at ease and encourage her to be an expressive and assertive lover.”

2. She’s partial to cocktails. Is she ordering a pinot noir or a vodka martini? A recent study from Mindset Media found that wine drinkers tend to be unadventurous and less likely to take risks, while vodka drinkers enjoy being in charge and independent. And here’s another not-so-shocking conclusion: tequila drinkers are “free spirited, outgoing and fun to be around.” Those sure sound like positive carnal qualities to us. Bottoms Up!