Listen up, gentlemen. We know you want to please your lady (or, if you're single, the ladies) in the bedroom—and they sure as hell want you to do it, too.
But here's the truth: While most guys think they're blowing her mind, more often than not, they're missing the mark.
"Women know that most guys want them to reach O-land, and they don't want to disappoint," says Dorian Solot, a sex educator and co-author of I Love Female Orgasm: An Extraordinary Orgasm Guide. "So all too often, women fake orgasms, or just let their partner assume they had one."
But don't settle for disappointing. Stick to these positions. Believe us: Both you—and she—will know that they work.