"Nothing turns me on more than a woman who's completely naked except for high heels. Is there anything on the male end of things that I could wear—a certain type of underwear, jeans, grooming, anything-that would return the favor and turn her on, too?" — Lance T., Evanston, IL
Not really. Just tell her she’s gorgeous—we’re that easy.
But now that you’ve mentioned it, what type of underwear or grooming did you have in mind? If I understand the subtext correctly, it sounds like you want to sport a thong that showcases your freshly waxed balls, or perhaps wear the heels yourself? Whatever kinky urges you have for experimenting aesthetically in the bedroom, I’d say go for it.
After all, you only live once!