Know Her Erogenous Zones

Nibbling Around the Edges

Nibble and gently suck on her earlobe, then lick the center of her ear. Do this briefly, then gauge her reaction—some women love it, but to others it's as annoying as a wet willie. If she reaches for a paper towel, you'll have your answer. But if you're incredibly lucky, doing this alone with a certain facility can bring some women to orgasm—a phenomenon called the auricologenital reflex, caused by stimulating a nerve inside the ear canal.