Turns out, there's a downside to being well-endowed. “Everyone assumes women want large penises," says Kat Van Kirk, Ph.D., a licensed marriage and sex therapist and resident sex and relationship expert for Adam & Eve. "But many don’t realize the pain and discomfort that can go into having penetrative sex. And interestingly, many well-endowed men I've worked with say that sometimes it inhibits the kind of sex they want to have,” she explains.
If you're finding certain positions difficult, or even painful for your partner, here are some helpful tips and techniques to implement—as well as answers to your most pressing questions.