MARIA, 36: “Manhandle me, press your body against mine, and don’t be afraid to take the upper hand.” BROOKE, 27: “Switch up your favorite position and give me something new.” LEEZA, 25: “Tie me up, blindfold me, and explore me.” BRIDGET, 29: “Talk dirty and order me around! It helps me know what you like!” MICHAELA, 34: “Pay more attention to the details of my body, especially my clitoris. Multiple spots being stimulated at once makes for multiple orgasms.” KAREN, 45: “Lip service, please! Talk to your woman; tell her something that makes her feel special in that moment. And use that mouth all over me.” SONYA, 28: “Use a vibrator on me; you can pleasure me in different ways at once.” ISABELLA, 31: “More foreplay. We are complex creatures, so one minute of kissing is not gonna cut it. Touch me, grab me, play with me until I beg.” ANGELICA, 27: “Take me on the kitchen counter, interrupt me while I’m cooking, be totally unexpected in where we have sex! Spontaneity keeps it interesting and turns me on.” HOLLY, 26: “Stop being self-conscious. We don’t want someone who pussyfoots around thinking, ‘Does she want me to do this?’ There’s no room for insecurities in the bedroom, so leave them at the door.” TINA, 27: “Nothing is worse than a one-minute man, so step up your game and learn control and stamina.” NANCY, 42: “Confidence, but not cockiness. A woman wants a man who isn’t afraid to please her. Massage me to loosen up and ease the tension."
Want to be better in bed tonight? Listen to these women tell you how to have the sex of your dreams—and hers