You’ve probably heard the claim that men think about sex every seven seconds. While that frequency (more than 500 times per hour) seems extremely high, there’s no denying that guys have sex on their minds at some point during each and every day. It turns out that women do as well. An Ohio State University study revealed that guys think about sex 19 times per day (debunking that every-seven-seconds myth) compared to 10 times per day for women.
So, if you’ve wondered why the woman you’re dating or are married to won’t have sex with you, you may have chalked it up to the antiquated theory that guys just think about sex all of the time, while women don’t. But we know now that’s just not true. Since each relationship and situation is unique to the people involved, there’s no one-size-fits-all answer as to why she won’t have sex with you. But, there definitely are some clues depending on the stage of your relationship.