<p>Come on. We <a href="http://www.mensfitness.com/women/sex-tips/are-you-normal-in-the-bedroom?... it’s your fantasy</a>. And a cramped cabin bathroom is no excuse—find a way (or a position) to make airplane sex work, because it’ll be well worth the effort. According to O’Reilly, you'll dream about it for years to come—and the stress of customs, immigration and general travel will <em>never</em> be the same.</p>
3. Date a sex(y) professional.
<p>Sexologist <a href="http://www.gloriabrame.com/">Gloria Brame, Ph.D.</a> is adamant that “every guy should date a stripper, sex-worker, porn star, webcam girl, etc. at least once.” Why, you ask? You’ll find out what it's like to be with a sexual wild woman—and maybe even learn a few things from her in the process.</p>
4. Take PDA to the next level.
Stairwells, elevators, stadium seating, hot tubs, fitting rooms —try one, or try ‘em all. “If you're new to public sex, try it on a balcony, as it offers the perfect balance of safety and risk,” O’Reilly recommends. “If intercourse seems too complicated or revealing, get creative with oral and manual stimulation.” However, she warns that you should also be aware of local laws. As hot as it may be in theory, you don't want to end up having actual conjugal-visit-sex anytime soon. “But the thrill of being watched or getting caught can heighten your response...and hers,” says O’Reilly.
5. Engage in a One-Night Wonder.
<p>Face it: At some point in the future you will probably find a woman you love, marry her—and never sleep with another woman again. Before that time comes, you <em>must</em> have a one night stand. This is not a suggestion—it is an order. One-night stands offer the kind of spontaneous, unadulterated, no-strings-attached sex you’ll never get from a woman you’re dating or married to. And here’s proof it’s a worthwhile bucket-list item: a <a href="http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/7475695.stm">study out of Durham University</a> in the UK concluded that four out of five men felt “more content, sexually satisfied and confident” after a casual sexual encounter.</p>
6. Get tied up.
Who's sick of hearing about <em>50 Shades of Grey</em>? All the more reason to ask her to pull what we're going to call a <em>reverse</em> Christian Grey on you. “Men are socialized to take control in the bedroom, but the experience of role reversal can be one of the most powerful sexual experiences,” says O’Reilly. “Let her tie you up, blindfold you and do all the work—as you lie back and enjoy the ride.”
7. Sharpen your oral skills.
Mastering the ability to please a woman <em>down there</em> is the gift that keeps on giving. Think of it as the secret talent you have hidden in your backpocket that’ll instantly turn you into a sexual rockstar. And more importantly? Women will love you for it, advises Brame.
8. Get freaky on film.
Imagine you kicked the bucket suddenly, and never had the opportunity to watch yourself have sex? Sounds tragic, right? Before that happens, make sure you find a hot consenting lady to sleep with you while the camera’s rolling. Nothing will make you feel sexier than shooting an amateur porn—and watching the footage together afterward.
9. Take a trip down to Cougar Town.
Despite his failed marriage to Demi Moore, Ashton Kutcher has sung the praises of having a May-December romance. So why not give it a go? “Try dating an older woman,” says Brame. “Why not? It's very educational!” According to Brame, an older woman is usually in a different place in her life—more emotionally stable <em>and</em> more sexually experienced. Plus she's willing to teach you...and has fewer inhibitions. “I think a man in his 20s should at least try a sexual relationship with a grown-up woman because it could change his whole point of view on sex,” she says.
10. Break the language barrier.
You haven’t lived until you’ve slept with someone that doesn’t speak English. Who cares if you don’t understand a word that she says? Steamy, unadulterated sex with a foreigner shouldn’t require any talking. Not to mention, women from other cultures and countries will be able to show you what you’ve been missing by only shagging Americans.