Your Ultimate Sex Bucket List

The fantasy of having a three-way usually tops the list of men's fantasies, but a full-on ménage-à-trois might not be realistic for you and your partner. “Role-playing and fantasy games are great first-steps, but if you want to up the ante, visit a strip club together and share an erotic moment with one of their dancers,” says sexologist Jessica O’Reilly, Ph. D., author of the forthcoming Hot Sex Tips, Tricks & Licks.