Few challenges inspire terror in a man like shopping for his wife or girlfriend in the holiday season. Every buy is a landmine: What size do you get? What’s her favorite color? What’s the deal with Pilates leggings, anyway? Are Pilates leggings even a thing?

(Pro tip: Pilates leggings are not a thing.)

But buck up, dude: Here, we’ve collected our favorite gifts for the special lady in your life. Style, fashion, the mystical tides of Pinterest—we’ve parsed it all, and these should be your go-to gifts for the season.